Tell me how is H and OW ever going to get tired of each other when they live in different states and their R so far consists of passionate meet ups at hotels. They have so much in common, work and horrible long term relationships with their LBSs.
I am going to answer your questions, but you have to try and get to a point where you realize none of these questions matter one bit. You are strongly focused on him right now and the OW. She is a problem, but not THE problem. You really, really can put her out of your mind right now if you tried. Get some personal plans going on for you. Again, personal plans for ONLY you!
Now, the questions. Their R is built on a lie. It is hard to keep something with such a horrible foundation going. He cant turn to her for support or anything because of the distance. She is a dream, and very very rarely do dreams turn into reality. The truth will start to seep in, and his days with her are numbered.
He is lying and cheating on his W. He is leaving his small child. How much can they have in common? If she is also doing the same thing they will end up doing it to each other.
If he needed you to do more in the M, he should have worked with you and communicated better. If he has not learned these skills during this nightmare, he will drag these issues to his R with her and dowen it will go.
Last edited by Mona52; 12/27/1506:18 PM.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
