I have the same thing going on with my in laws and mother. My mom saw W and OM out together at a bar one night and has been spitting venom ever since. She was so upset that night that she went home and had too much to drink and tripped and fell and broke her arm! My mom is almost 60 years old and broken bones are not a good thing at that age. I too am very close with my W family and they are getting tired of her crapola as well. Of course W is living at MILs house right now and I'm sure is feeling that pressure from her mom. This Christmas was the first time in 18 years that both of our families were not together. It was truly heartbreaking for everyone except WW. I had a hard time with it but have decided that she can't get in the way of my relationship with the grandparents of our children and they are really great folks.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15