Apparently the in-law meet up wasn't well received by my spouse. Claimed to have been blindsided by my visit. But did not rant. After visiting with them for Thanksgiving, how could a X-Mas meet up be a surprise? I like my in-laws. Always have.

Also wants me to have a relationship with her parents. She also desires a relationship with me and my family, but understands if that is not possible. So cold. How do they get so cold?

My Mother decided to not come to the X-Mas meal because she is still upset about wife. Collateral damage.


Me - Mid 40's
W - Mid 40's
Married 20
No kids
BD - 7/2015
ILYB...
Moved out 2 days later
Suspect EA