Venting here to those of us who are following your sitch rather than letting it out on your H is a great decision. You'll probably get a more helpful reaction and you can have the freedom of not walking on eggshells while you do.
Love the idea of the letter to your kids!
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16