Today, I'm kind of maudlin. I keep wanting to send H an e-mail congratulating him on the destruction of a once phenomenal family. He better be freaking deliriously happy considering what this cost us.
I won't do it, but man! I really, really want to. The jerk.
I know how you feel Ancaire. I feel like I could write this letter too, but we are the bigger people here and as Mutatio brilliantly puts it, it would not help our situations. I am still in disbelief how someone can remove themselves from their family like our Hs have. The saddest part of it all is your sentence about hoping that "H is deliriously happy considering what it has cost us." The sad part being that I don't think they are. Of course, I cannot speak for your H but my H certainly isn't happy right now. In fact, he seems to be in a worse place than I am! Constantly bailing out on his kids because "he's not in the mood." He looks worse than I do so is clearly sleeping less than me (and that's a feat in itself!) and keeps complaining of stomach problems (stress). So no, they've destroyed our families and for what? A lonely, miserable life without the people who love them.
