This thought comes from love dear friend. If I hurt your feelings please know it was not my intention. The path we walk is fraught with dead ends and distractions. Choose wisely where you tread
Wise words delivered by someone I trust. How on earth could my feelings be hurt? I know you care, or you wouldn't waste your time. I wouldn't have sent the letter. I just want to.
I did, however, send a letter to my children last week. In it I apologized for some of my poor decisions over the past few months. I explained to them my plans for the future. As much as I didn't want to, I also encouraged them to forgive their father, and to include him in their lives without worrying about hurting my feelings.
Of course, selfish me wants them to blacklist H. The loving mother me wants them to have a satisfying and rewarding relationship with their father. I do worry about him, in spite of being so disgusted. If he is completely cut off from his children, I see no good coming from that either for them or for H. I love my children too much to let that happen. They need their father in their lives.
I did the right thing. It just pained me to do it. I know which is the right course to follow - sometimes I just have to make myself do it. LOL
