PP, thanks for sharing your day with us. I would agree with Fogg that the path you are on is the right one. Remember that DBing isn't necessarily getting your M back, but getting yourself back. You learned some things in your conversation and you made sure to stay present, acknowledge her feelings, and yet stay honest to yourself. Keep on the path of finding the best PP out there. You are doing great, as I'm sure Woofie would tell you!
***hugs***
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out