Hi Anc - yes I know my sitch is different to most - or is it? - is she just an extraordinary cake eater?
Yesterday she worn the earrings I bought, and the coat when we went to visit friends. She loves the coat, 'it's make me feel very stylish'
Today she worn the jumper dress I bought for her.
We visited MIL, and SIL. A lot of emotion present as FIL died just 3 days ago.
I don't know how much and what detail W has told SIL about our sitch but when I greeted SIL she hugged me for 1 minute solid - everyone was watching including W. It moved me to tears. Then when we were due to leave SIL hugged me again for 30 seconds and whispered ''W must be mad'. W and SIL are very close sisters so it was nice that SIL reached out to me. BIL also reached out and next I would always be welcome in their house. I told him I appreciated that.
Later W thanked me for helping MIL with moving furniture about for dinner, helping with the cooking and cleaning. She reached out and rubbed my shoulder/arm - one of the few times she has physically touched me since BD.
The funeral will not take place until the New Year so I want to detach from W a little and see if she pursues me a little.
Later I gave W a deluxe foot rub and she 'moaned' a little when I stopped as it was 'so good'
A have a 50 mile bike ride with pals tomorrow am.
Last edited by isittoolate; 12/26/1511:37 PM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
