Thanks sgctxok. It sometimes takes a lot of space to notice the things you do wrong.

Can you tell me where I can find more info the Real Giving/Active listening. I:ve just looked in the books but can't find anything there. I definately need to do some work on that area.

Thanks in advance, and Happy (belated) Christmas!


Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.