From a mans perspective, it seems like he is trying to relive some part of his life that he feels he missed out on. Although I don't have any intention of doing this sort of thing, I know that I have had the same feelings from time to time. We married young and have known each other since high school. The way I grew up was in stark contrast to the way she grew up and I don't know if we were ever able to see life from the other's point of view. If your H is reluctant to commit to anything right now I tend to lean toward the leave them to their own devices for a while camp.
It can be the most painful thing you will ever have to do.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15