I had a great day. Went shopping my a friend and we had a great time. The more I think about it, the more I wonder if H isn't in MLC.
He came earlier to pick up girls, then later texted me if I didn't mind picking up the kids, if not he'll walk back with them. I picked them up and was surprised as they were ready but he let me in into his friends' house! Then he said he was having a chill night!
The friends that he was with are all around his age, single and their life is there hobby. H had his 1st daughter at 21, then left her when he was 26, then met me, then at 29 we had our first daughter. So I think his mum's death triggered him to revuate his life and being a father @21 meant that he had to be responsible for a family very young!
I feel sorry for him as he didn't have the chance to leave his youth and I now think he wants to live it! He is no longer pushing for sale of the house. He might never come out of it and he might never love me, but in the end I feel sorry for him. One of his sister told me that he'd never be happy and I guess she might be right!
What a waste as deep down, I know things can be sorted out and we can have a better, healthier marriage. Unfortunately it takes two to want it and H doesn't want. He never initiate conversation but he's never been much of a talker, so don't know how to interact with him. Any ideas?
