Gmum,so sorry to hear about what just happened.

If your H is feeling guilty right now, get the best deal out of him. Please do it for your D and yourself.

This guilty phase won't last long and you trying to let him have his terms won't change his mind about the D. I've been there and done that. frown

Whatever he promises to give you now, get it captured in text and use it fir your benefit.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.