There are other actions and events as well as your own gut feeling when interacting that could determine this but in all honesty if in 5 months you only get txt with little to no calls then my guess is you are not on her shopping list. Max
I don't know how far back you read but this is exactly what I have been saying and the reason why I have been debating pushing for D.
Of course you aren't on her "shopping list" right now. But that doesn't mean you always won't be. If your goal is to be married to your wife, then I don't see how filing for D helps you achieve your goal.
In my opinion, continue forward until your goals change.
