That is odd. I wonder if she's defensive about her position, so she's coming off as aloof, when she used to be quite warm and friendly? You've said, too, that her entire personality changed. Is it different around the boys, too?

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

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