Lol Ancaire, you are doing fine. We will all be great, hopefully soon!
Thanks grl. I appreciate it. That's the goal!
Now then, yesterday at lunch time, STBX texted me about some random website. Boys had me pick her out stuff for a stocking, so I got chocolates she likes and a local wine I thought she would like (under 10 bucks total, nothing big). Boys told me that she took it to her mom's and they drank it. W later dropped off the boys, and put a couple gifts from the inlaws in my car. Wished me a merry christmas. 10 minutes later she texts me again.
Remember, small town... so W close mom-friend told my family that she has noticed the big changes in her over the summer too. That makes everyone in our clique that has told me or my family that. And s4 nursery school teacher is friends with my cousin. Teacher said that she is tired of my W attitude that she has had for this school year. One of her coworkers has mentioned it. One of my coworkers told me he went to her business and she appeared very fake.
None of this amounts to a hill of beans, unless she notices everyone treating her differently and it causes her to wake up. I'm not holding my breath there. Another one of her mom - friends sent me a FB request. I am pretty sure she has lost all of her support in the community, except that of her boss. Her mess, not mine. I have more people than ever talking to me and reaching out to me.
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
