I have nothing to add for the car talk, I know very little about them. May be a bit strange that I'm an engineer for a tier 1 automotive supplier but it is what it is. Hope your doing alright mutatio. That's alot of time not to see your D but I'm glad you had some family time with her before she left.
Who knows, maybe you could do a suprise visit to her in a couple months.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be