I didn't want to hear her say that she wants to separate. The bomb has been dropped. I will give her the option of responding if she wants to. I want to express my views on the situation. Keeping things to myself is one reason we are in this situation.
For too long I kept quiet and look where that has gotten me. As my coach said, I should not go dark living in the same house. He suggested I open up about finances. " when" she decides to separate not "if".
By doing this I can indirectly open up some sort of communication. I know I might not like what I hear but it may also show I am more confident.
Don't count the days, make the days count. Mohammad Ali
