Welcome to the board, Brad, and Merry Christmas. I think you are off to a good start.
Yes, this is the best place to get support. People in real life don't want to see you hurting and will push you for an easy answer- an easy way out. DB'ing is hard work, but you will be better off in the end because you will have worked on your own issues and not bring them into your next relationship- whether it is with your W or someone else. Hang in there, there is hope, you are doing well so far. I am sorry that you are dealing with this on Christmas.
