I love how Zues tells it like it is. I think I might steal that quote, about compatibility and just taking the easy emotional bait. That is one of the most profoundly insightful things I have read about this topic in a long time.
AU Bob, What present did she get you? I am glad you had a good day. My H got me a guitar. Hard to know what to think, such mixed messages. I like the guitar though, now I need to learn to play.