I am at my mom's. We had some family over last night and gong to my sister's later.
Just now debating whether to text Merry Christmas to H. Unless OW had come across country again he is likely by himself.

I think I won't.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming