I have news! For some reason, H chickened out. He won't be coming. You can all breathe easy now. The kids and I will have a wonderful time without him. I don't know why he backed out - OW, fear of being drawn back in, or guilt - don't really care, other than I'm missing an opportunity to show him what he's losing. Oh, well. Time will probably make that point far better for me than one evening with me walking around on eggshells!
So, tomorrow? Just me and my children, children-in-laws, and girlfriends. I am so very happy, and am really looking forward to tomorrow now more than ever.
I did extend an invitation. The kids are aware and appreciative. H and I had 2 brief, but pleasant interactions today. I'm pleased with myself for being true to who I am, but thankful that I get to relax and have fun. It did pay off to be nice this time.
