Buttrfly & Job, thanks so much for your kind comments. Irish, thanks for posting. Yes, I agree with you - it is more a case of accepting there is a journey to take for both us and the MLCer - and where the journeys will lead, will unfold in time.

Well, it's Xmas morning here and I just wanted to wish you all a Merry Xmas. I hope we all have peace in our hearts today, and enjoy some time with family, friends or ourselves - whatever our circumstances.

I'm off to spend the day with my parents, and we have some friends coming over for a Christmas drink later too. It should be a pretty relaxed and low key day.

Warm festive wishes to you all xxx ooo

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus