I like your list! It sounds like you've been doing quite a bit of thinking. DBing at its' best.

Just wanted to stop in and wish you the very merriest of Christmases this year!

Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti