G'Day Brad ( sorry, I couldn't help myself. I actually do a lot if business in OZ),
Merry Christmas!! I know it might not seem so Merry right now. Sorry you found yourself here, but all considered, it is a great place to be with wonderful people who will be here to support you. This entire process really stinks and it is going to be a long haul, so patience will be key. It may be a bit quiet considering it is the holidays, so you might not get a ton of other replies until Monday.
In the meantime, start reading through all of the links that Cadet sent you and jeep posting. The best advice I have is to stay focused on yourself right now. So what are those goals that you have set? Also, tell us more about what your W has said are her issues with you and your M?
Hang in there!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015