Thank you very much everyone for your kind thoughts. It's Christmas Eve here in the UK, and I had a great evening. A friend came over with her kids and we had a great time eating together. Then I cuddled up with my kids and we watched TV. I felt good and didn't think too much about H.
Then I received a text from him, saying that he had in his mind to have all his kids opening the presents on Boxing Day and that he was looking forward to it. Then in his next sentence, he said that he is sure that the kids would love to open their presents with him on Xmas Day, and asked if he could come round tomorrow afternoon. Honestly which planet does he live on? I refrained myself from telling him why aren't you taking the kids to your mate's house, but realised that it wasn't worth the fight!
Merry Christmas to all of you and I'm keeping you in my prayers. Thanks for being there for me, you all are gems and I'm glad I have met you here :-)