I doubt she is getting help financially. She can afford to be on her own. I am sure her life was more comfortable being with me, but she should be doing OK. My wife would never take money from them... not sure if WW would though (I don't think so but ya never know).
Emotionally, I mean I guess I am not sure. She is their daughter and they are not the type to question something like this. They are more of the go with the flow type. Not sure I can change anything in regards to that.
Thanks for the advice on calling it quits. It is a hard thing and I am glad I am taking my time and not doing anything on a whim. The previous history is what is making this harder. The fear of this just happening again in the future makes me want to give up. That would be a huge thing for both of us to deal with.
I remember reading about the last resort after the last resort. Maybe that would be an option. I would want to date in that phase though and I am not sure I am comfortable doing that while still technically married even though the marriage is over. Know what I mean? That is a weird one.
Given the actions of the past few days, it looks like I will sit back and watch for a bit longer. I won't be doing anything right away in the new year (though I do want to sell this house!). We'll see what happens. Thanks again