My point was to not confuse it with what we refer to on this board as a "transparency plan". If she won't cooperate and you need to use a device to find out the truth, then that is your decision. I am not arguing or disagreeing. My point was merely to point out the difference in this technique and the one where both people are on the same page working together.
Okay?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
