My friend did say she was staggered at how well I have been doing and how far I have come. I had a little doubt of - maybe she thinks I didn't love H enough and have 'got over' him too easily. But I just said to her I'm making the most of what life has to offer. I didn't choose to be here, but there is still a life to live & enjoy without H.
I get this a lot too. I don't think it's getting over our partners too easily. In my case and I think in yours it's that we accept the situation and there's not much we can do but let them do this journey. We just need to make it as comfortable as we can for us and go forward. I don't understand certain people wanting me to be depressed or sad. Life is still great. I'm making it the way I want to make it.
You are amazing. I wish you a great Christmas.
Irish xx
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
