Help keep me on track. Seeing Christmas all around is making me very nostalgic and emotional...and making me want to contact H. Knowing the OW has not moved in and is probably several states away is making it worse. Contact is a bad idea.
I am increasing my personal interaction a little but I have to be very cautious. This past weekend was on the verge of too much personal so I need to stick to NC for a little while.
I also need to remind myself of the true picture of H and our issues. He has significant issues that he not dealing with so why do I want to talk to him anyway?
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
Judy, I baked up a storm this weekend to keep myself busy while H was at the house. Now I have to stare down cookies every night. I can't even give them all away.
Have fun but be cautious
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming
I admit that I haven't stopped WANTING to contact H for one single day since BD, but I have had no contact for an entire 4 weeks now. HARDEST THING EVER! It does seem to get harder the closer Christmas gets. I am trying so hard to stay strong and stay course though.
My H also has significant issues to deal with and only seems to want to avoid them by throwing me away and moving on with an OW. He has never tried to fix anything about himself though so why start now?!
Hugs to you Becky, I hope you're having a great day!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
Pho? Would you be a love and share your recipe for your Cranberry/Almond/White Choc cookie creation?
I've copied the Lemon already. I think I'll start some baking. I've been so far in the dumps, I need to do something kind of fun.
Baking. I'll bake.
Ancaire, I didn't write down the recipe and when I tried to recreate it something was off. I am going to try again this weekend and if I get I will write it down and give it to you.
Best thing about them is they are calorie free! LOL. Good thing I am taking up running soon.
Ancaire, your day sounds just like mine. Running to store now, cleaning bathrooms, baking cookies. Going to church too. And talking to a friend about a job!
Thanks, Fo and D! I know we can do it. Grocery shopping at 6 am was a dream today, other than the shelves being cleaned out! LOL
I was in and out, with a full cart, in 30 minutes. When does that ever happen? A great start to the last major workday before Christmas. Of course, my work will be here at home - but it is work!
Now to clean the bathrooms...yeah, me!
Merry Christmas, guys! I hope we all have a great one.
