Introspective : Where I failed in Marriage 1.0. Where I need to improve in Marriage 2.0 whatever happens.

Not owning the romance and sex dept - organising QT for W and I

Not playing enough with the boys

Not enough rough and tumble/ boys games/ bonding with the boys

Not showing the boys I Love Them every day

Not standing up for myself - avoiding conflict

Guilty of covert contracts

Not expressing my feelings enough

Playing video games to escape

Not leading the household - W leads it

Not taking time to help W organise childcare

Walking on eggshells/burying head in the sand instead of confronting a deteriorating marriage 

No sarcastic remarks to Sons when they do something wrong - sarcasm is not witty and is demeaning

Saying sorry too often - makes you weak



Last edited by isittoolate; 12/24/15 11:57 AM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16