Job, thanks for the perspective. I think I was a tough cookie, but I also had a lot of issues that influenced a lot of mistakes I made in my M. I was working on my issues for my entire life, and I think H’s MLC sped up the process significantly. I’m curious, if not for H’s MLC, could I have my own… I think I had some kind of midlife transition about 6 years ago, but it was nothing compared to H’s.
I actually was passive-aggressive, now that I think about it... This is probably one of the biggest changes I made in myself. Good to hear that you don’t see this in me . I’m also so happy that I was able to grow and become the person I’m now. I like myself a lot better this way .
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state