Okay, and now for a question.

My H has been watching our S this week as he was out of school, but I was not. Today, he apparently left our S with the OW for a bit and took off. This is from my son. My H told me all about our S's day before he left for the evening, but did not mention that part.

Should I call him on it? Anytime we've ever let someone babysit our child, we both knew the person. We also agreed, just two nights ago, that if babysitting needed to happen, the other should be offered first. I could have had him come to my school as it was a last day before Christmas thing and he would have loved it. So mad and frustrated, but at the same time questioning myself if this is something I need to learn to let go. I know my H would not leave our S in an unsafe environment.....just....I don't know..

I really dislike hearing from my S about this.


M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out