Will do! I really don't plan to speak with him at all, other than a "hello", perhaps. I've got lots of children he should be busy with, since they are the reason he found himself the lucky recipient of an invitation to join his family.
I haven't spoken with him for over a week now! I'm really proud of that fact. A few text exchanges for important information - but when he's attempted to bait me via text, I just use the powerful weapon called IGNORE.
IGNORE is my new weapon as well. A couple of weeks ago I received a snarky, "thanks for replying" in response to me not acknowledging a text he sent. I did not reply because there was no real need to. Funny how they don't like the same treatment that they dish out.
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I'm certain I will be just fine - but if my blood starts to boil for any reason, I plan to come here and vent here, first. That alone could have saved me so much heartache in the past. I learn from my mistakes. No reacting! Aloof, yet kind - I feel good with that plan.
This sounds like a great plan. I will pop in online on Christmas and check in.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
