Need Help (new thread)

[AU Bob]

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Thanks Zues, you made me smile and laugh.
Yes your right she just did not want to put any effort in. The compatibility is an analogy of mine, I do think about what went wrong, because we have never really sat down to get to the real nitty gritty of it you know the root cause. This one of the reasons why I think there is a bit of MLC happening, I think she just wants to do what she wants and a committed marriage wont allow that, easier to just blame someone else and take the easy way out. Having a shoulder to cry on makes it even better someone to justify the final decision to quit, even though the person attached to that shoulder has a vested interest in making sure that happens(OM)
She's on a journey where that takes her who knows, I am weighing up how long I am going to wait to let her find out. Putting that side of my life on hold is something im not sure about when enough is enough.
I will enjoy tomorrow I think I am at the stage now that I can do that.