Hi Lady V You get a lot of thanks on this site and you really spend so much time helping others I hope you don't mind but I have a few thoughts that I would like to share
You seem to blame yourself way to much and accept blame where there is none
Yes , it's possible that you could have had a part in the demise of your M but to be honest I do t see this H had serious issues to deal with and Lady V putting herself forward as an issue just does not fit Your intelligence shows that while not perfect your not far off
You seem to looking for answers where there aren't any. H chose his path and I don't think V made any difference to the outcome
Your posts are incredibly insightful and caring and I enjoy each one
I do worry that you take on to much re the blame of the sitch
However. Thanks for being Lady V. Your a huge asset to the site
