This is why at this point, I am wondering if I really want or need to go there. I have the opportunity to have a freas start too and there may be someone out there who is more compatable, im on the fence witch way to fall?
I believe compatibility is a pile of bull$hit people use to justify divorce.
Yes, you can go to extremes. If one person wants 5 children raised catholic in Chicago and wants 12 cats, and the other person wants to live in Nepal and live without children, is allergic to cats, and wants to just walk the land...yeah, that could be tough. So people can pitch these arguments like it justifies the compatibility myth.
The problem is the people that use this example aren't getting divorced because of these reasons. They're getting divorced because they want the benefits of a relationship without putting in the work, so they'll tear apart a family because there's another person that is willing to dangle some emotional bait for them that seems more easily available.
Bottom line, anyone woman that mentions compatibility with me clearly wouldn't be compatible with me
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It will be interesting for myself to see what I am like while around her tomorrow, i hope i can portray myself as a strong confident man and show her I am moving on!
Like they say, if you want to paint a perfect picture, just make yourself perfect, then paint naturally.
Live each day doing your best to become the man you feel you should be. The right people will get the right impression.
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MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
