Back on these forums again 4

[Mona52]

I am going to tear my H apart here so I see clearly why any normal sane person would not rush to 'help' someone after being treated like this.

Warning, this is nothing but a pure, unfiltered rant about what a jerk he is and poor me, poor me.

While living at the house, we were desperate for cash to pay the rent. This was during 2015, not too long ago. H only worked a total of 2 days in 2 weeks. I believe he COULD have worked more, but chose not to. He wanted to play video games all day and night. Then he went out and purchased a $300.00 watch. I was so angry, but I did not say anything. There was no point. He never hears me when I talk.

I stayed up 3 nights straight and just flat out wrote article after article to sell to content mills online to earn more cash. He never came to bed so he had no idea.

2 days later he tells me his sister in NYC is in the hospital, dying. 2 weeks ago his brother was in the hospital for a triple bypass in NYC. I had to give him approximately $300 for each trip and I could not say no because they were dying.

Then I saw the pictures on FB of my H at a carnival on a ride with his brother.... the day after triple bypass?

Then I recently found out his trips to NY were a cover. He briefly stopped to see family, but then drove to OW.

Me and the kids were broke, my whole paycheck was just not enough to cover all of the expenses. He was spending double what he was bringing in. He takes the precious pennies we do have and goes on a trip to have an A.

Fast forward. All he wants is a D. Looking back, I did nothing to warrant this. I was abundantly open and available when he did decide to come to bed. I cooked his fav meals, I supported him when he needed anything. He sent me text messages every day saying he loved me sooo much. Even the day before I kicked him out he sent one.

The house was not clean. I will accept partial responsibility for that, but I have been busy and they easily could have done more as well.

Why would anyone in their right mind help him? By helping him, I am permitting him to treat me like dirt.

I am not helping him.