Sorry for your wife's loss and yours too to a certain extent. Your w is going to feel lousy. Some or all of that is going to be thrown at you. Listen to her pain not her words. Be strong be present and be caring, but you cannot do more.
Even if she does want out now, her emotional low will change and maybeshe will feel different then. Take it as it comes and keep working on you.
Best wishes.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
