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She may or may not be ready for MC. And that is okay for now.

She has years and years of unresolved questions and anger that have built up inside of her...and ALL of that HAS to come out at some point.

Now, it can be through MC, or standing on your porch, while Bigfoot is chasing you, whatever, wherever....but it IS gonna come out of her....

What you need to realize, is that it is a good thing that it is coming out at all...


Yeah, makes total sense.

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And that this is gonna turn worse way before it starts to get better...


And...crush. I so hope you are wrong about this...but somehow, I doubt that you are.

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Because you were more focused on you, than you were on her


Maybe so...I need to believe that I had an impact on it going well. Not for her, but for me. I need something to hold onto. Slow positive growth.



I'm really sorry to hear about your reader's digest version. I really just can't even imagine. Thank you for being here to help guy's like me.


Me:41 - LBH in apt
W:39 - WW in home
Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42
M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15
(PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)