Mona, your husband needs to learn the consequences of his choices and behavior. If you bail him out he will never learn, never step up and always depend on you. Don't feed the stray animal at the back door unless you want him to come back.
I agree with job about giving the kids a heads up, it will soften the blow if they know before hand and understand there are money issues.
I think you doing a great job with work, school and as a mom. Please don't sell yourself short, some lucky guy is going to be so happy to be your friend. Find a good man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Do not settle for crumbs, you deserve a banquet. Be well
