Same thing happened here - H was very angry that I was not working full-time. He brought up in MC how he felt all alone in the role as provider. Part of me thought it was his own distancing that made him feel alone, and that his main concern was that he wanted me to have an income so he could leave me without having to pay so much alimony. I did mention that in MC and he acted stunned.
I don't understand though - H says that since he provides, he shouldn't have to contribute anything else to the marriage... How would that work if I worked full-time as well?
Julie, more seriously - I hear your anger and sadness. I'm sorry he did this. But it also sounds like he's been trying to tell you something?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
