I am so glad you are back. I took a break as well, but found that I was not releasing enough bad energy and starting to have pointless thoughts about my sitch. It has been helpful to be back on here reading some other newbie stitches/ advice to reinforce some DB basics that can easily be forgotten.
Sorry to hear that your H is taking things out in S. Just shows the turmoil he is in right now. I know how having your H ignore you is almost worse than negative interactions/engagement. I think you will do mch better when he moves out. I know that really helped clear my mind and detach.
What have you been doing to take care of you? Any fun plans for the holidays?
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015