Judy, you're an awesome lady. It shows class to do what you are doing. I agree h will be on his best behavior.
How about having a gift wrapped for someone you know. And if you start to feel uncomfortable, you can always make the excuse that you need to run it to your neighbor, lawyer, banker, whatever. It can give you an escape, even if you just drive to a park and sit for a whike to clear your head. Doesn't even need to be anything in the box.
Just an idea.
Merry Christmas eve eve!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....