dday, getting out of the muck

[Sotto]

Hi Dday, with the 'let's be friends' thing - I don't think you need to avoid her & walk away. I think it is more a case of having a life of your own, having friends and fun stuff to do. That way, when you see her you can be brief, pleasant neighbourly - and then there's somewhere else you need to be. That isn't friends - it's colleague/neighbour territory and I think that's right zone for her...

Take care xx