Thanks, Sherman, for the great advice. I plan to follow it to the letter. I really do need to figure out my plans, and stick to them rather than reacting to an emotional moment.
I'm going to go back through my threads and document some things, too. Since I post here so often, I've got a good record of dates and occurrences.
Vanilla, Since we set the emergency hearing, my lawyer sent over an offer from H's attorney - basically stop the hearing, and H will comply. I'm not sure what to do. Every time something is completely dependent on H and his sense of honor, I wind up on the short end of the stick - however, hearings are expensive, and the fact we're looking at one has caused H's hostility to multiply tenfold. I'm still thinking it over.
