I have talked to her about that I need all her passwords, and access to her phone.
I got my new iPhone tonight. I'm still setting it up. While I had a break, she came downstairs for a minute. I asked her to come over and set up the fingerprint ID, so she could have access, and gave her my 6 digit access key. She flipped out, saying I was only doing it so that I could have access to all her info, and that she was NOT going to be doing that. I told her I still needed her to have access, so I would be accountable to her for my addiction. She reluctantly did put her fingerprint into my phone, but she then again reminded me I wasn't going to get any access to her stuff. Of course, I calmly said 'why? - do you have anything to hide?'... and she walked away and would not talk to me.
My spidey sense says something is still going on. It's really disappointing. Making strides, and then I have to now take a step back and figure out why she has to continue to hide something.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)