Hi Painter, just wanted to post and offer my support. I have been following along to everything that has been transpiring lately. Wow! I hope your H has finally come to his senses this time and gives 100% to R. It is a good start that he sent the NC letter.

I hope you have a wonderful holiday and that 2016 brings better times.

Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015