No disrespect taken. Makes sense, I caught up on your sitch at the exact wrong time, got the wrong idea. I think I saw the "EA 11/15" in your signature and took that to mean she was emotionally wayward.
Sandi definitely advocates there are some differences, but either way there are a lot of similarities. Love what you're saying about 180s, GAL, and just being more secure with who you are. Things have a way of clarifying after the holidays, and with what she's going through. As long as you know what YOUR road looks like, with or without her, you're on the right track.
Sorry to hear about this last news. Praying for your strength and W/FIL's pain.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15