Live15, I got a very similar speech after 17 year of marriage too. We had grown apart… He was not in love with me anymore… I was the best thing that happened to him, but it was a phase of his life, just like there was a phase before me… And now it is going to be the phase after me… He also told me that he doesn’t want to lose me completely and we could stay friends, and he would be coming to the house to take care of things, blah, blah, blah…
I’ve got a very good advice here. Read as much as you can about MLC. It is not going to be quick and easy turnaround. It could last for some time. I’m 3 ½ years post DB, and I’m still here. I agree with everyone here on setting the boundaries. And take care of yourself.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
