I don't want to assume, but it seems like the only thing that brought her back was her plan A got ruined when her affair went down the tubes and he gave her an STD. So it comes down to Sandi's loss theory. You talked about anger in the OMs, Cycling, cakes thread. Did you feel then, "Oh so you only want me as your fallback now because OM cheated on you??? Forget it!" Do you think her remorse is genuine now? Can't wait to hear your distillation of events. Thanks SM!


H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21
M:12 BD:1/15
In-house Separation 2/15
DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15
Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16
Reconciliation 1/17
Obviously still struggling